So you are ready to get married, you have the man and you are excited for your big day, but are you ready for the stresses of planning a wedding?  When you start to get more and more into the planning, you may find yourself getting a bit overwhelmed.  When planning a wedding, there is a lot to do, but there are things that you can do to save yourself some time!

First, get organized! Take some time to look around the Internet, talk to some friends, and your family to find out the feel of your wedding.  You can find pictures of almost everything that you want for your wedding, flowers, cake, etc.  I don’t mean that you have to follow the pictures exactly or that you will be able to afford everything that you want, but this will give you a starting point to work from.  Having this kind of feel for the wedding can save you time because when you do have vendor meetings, they will know right from the start the types of things that you may like.

Once you have the feel of your wedding, you should make sure to keep everything in one place and be sure to stay organized.  Whether you use a book, software, or a dry erase board, the important thing is to know where you are at in your planning at all times.

Minimize the running around…use lists! Just like going to the grocery store, the best way to shop for your wedding or meet vendors is with a detailed list.  When going to craft stores, department stores, bridal shops, etc you should bring a list so you know exactly which sections you should be looking in.  It is far too easy to start looking everywhere and start second guessing things you’ve already decided on!  Also, when you go on vendor visits, be prepared.  You should always bring a list of questions with you.  Having a list prepared may reduce you having to visit the vendor again or can help limit the e-mails and phone calls!  Be forewarned, vendors are not only dealing with your wedding so getting in touch with your vendors can be difficult and takes time.

Use the Internet! By far, the best way to save time and money for that matter is to use the Internet.  Before visiting any vendor, use the Internet to talk to people in your area who may already have used this vendor.  There are numerous forums that allow you to get recommendations or opinions on almost every vendor.  So, if someone has had a negative experience you may not want to bother meeting with that vendor.  The only caveat is to make sure that you take what is said with a grain of salt because you may be looking at the review of a total bridezila!

Making the most of your time while planning your wedding will reduce some of the stress and make sure that you still get what you want.  Although I still think it is important to meet face to face with your vendors, you may not need to meet 100 photographers before making a decision.  Instead, you can use other tools to narrow down your list and maybe only meet with the top 3 that fit your criteria.  Believe me, there is enough stress and drama around your wedding day, you don’t need to complicate your life even further!

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  1. Charla Said,

    March 3, 2009 @ 11:32 am

    Nice website! Those are great tips. We used those when our daughter got married five years ago. Looking back, I could have made things easier on myself, but oh well. (hindsight is always better than foresight…LOL) The wedding turned out lovely and guests enjoyed the reception.

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